![]() It's unbelievable how hard it can be when deciding what's best for your pet. You want to be sure they have the best treatment possible without adding more stress to the current problem. I want to thank all of you who answered my plea for advice last evening. I finally did get the estimate late last night (a total of $3033), however, still no call back. It was also explained that the estimate given is not final as there are other charges that can be incurred on the date of the exam. So in all reality, the estimate is not really an estimate. As much as I appreciated the time the doctor took to speak with me during the initial appointment the other day, I now have reservations about leaving Oreo at the clinic. I know that they have all of the latest technology and it's the only place you can really go for tests like Oreo was suggested to undergo. I just have this feeling that I really don't like about it all. You guys are right and I need to go with my gut on this one. I know that the place will sill be there after I've gotten a second opinion and I'll still be able to make another appointment if and when I decide it's the right thing to do. I think so much has happened in the past few weeks and the answers have been so vague that I am having a real hard time trusting people. I also feel that Oreo needs a break and some time to enjoy himself at home without being dragged to another test or clinic. So I've decided to get a second opinion and try to find a Holistic or Naturopathic vet. I also found an Animal Communications Specialist but for whatever reason the appointments only seem to be by phone or Skype and not on site. I am not completely sure how it works but at this point I will try anything! If anyone has any additional information, please feel free to share it! I have decided that I will also try the CBD Oil that many of you have suggested. I asked the neurologist about it the other day and she said that it won't hurt him and that many people choose to use it as an alternative therapy. So I know that there is no danger in trying it. I will try and find a local company that sells it for pets. There was an American company that had contacted me on Instagram and said they'd send me some but I don't think it will be able to be sent over the border. I think I am better off finding some here. Ideally I would also like to take Oreo off the Phenobarbital as the neurologist said that she didn't think it was actually doing anything at the dose he has anyway. I will contact my regular vet about this today and see what they think. If they agree that we should try taking him off it, I am sure they will give me the process in order to do that. I don't know if Oreo will have to see my vet again for blood tests before going off of the meds. It's possible. When I decided this last evening I felt a sigh of relief. I was actually able to sleep last night for the first time in weeks. I've been having these horrible nightmares that Oreo is drowning and I have to save him. I wake up in a pool of sweat and tears. Last night I slept through the whole night not even getting up once to go to the bathroom. That's pretty good because I always wake up at least once during the night. I will keep you guys posted on the progress we make. I felt awful having second thoughts last nigh, but after reading everyone's comments, I feel much better and I am so glad I asked you all for advice. The Oreo Cat calendars will continue to be available until the New Year. They're super cute and they make great Holiday gifts! I get $5 for each one sold and will put it towards towards vet bills. Thank you, Tina and Oreo.
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Laryn
10/17/2019 08:02:54 am
It sounds like you are doing exactly what I would do if Oreo were mine. I think you are making a good decision. Feel good with your choice and sleep relaxed now. Hoping for the best for Oreo and you.
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Pam Preiser
10/17/2019 08:22:29 am
Tina, you made the right decision. My one cat had to have an FHO surgery on her back leg. My vet advised that I would need to have the surgery done by an orthopedic vet, the cheapest quote I received was $8000. A co-worker asked me to call her vet to see if they did the procedure. To make a long story short, her vet did the surgery, for $800, and let me make monthly payments. I was like you, the ortho doctors made me uncomfortable, where the vet that did the surgery treated both Missy and myself with respect and a lot of reassurances that all would be well. Stick to what you feel in your heart about Oreo, and you will be fine. Much love to you and the kids.
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10/17/2019 10:10:06 am
Thanks Pam.
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Megan
10/17/2019 10:31:10 am
I believe you made the right decision. It's so easy to just go-go-go when it comes to our fur babies since we want them to be happy and healthy again. The downfall is the possibility of making rushed decisions. I think your gut feeling is a great guide, it helps to pause.
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Barbra
10/17/2019 10:54:10 am
I think you made the right decision for Oreo. You should always trust your gut. All vets are busy but you should be able to have all of your questions answered. Wish you the best. You’re a very caring cat-mom. Oreo (and crew) are lucky to have you!!
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Holly
10/17/2019 03:51:08 pm
As long as Oreo is stable it's reasonable to take a little break to research all options. Once you have a definitive diagnosis (which I would not rest until I obtained), then you can make informed treatment decisions. About leaving Oreo overnight: yes, stressful for him so why not arrange to fast him the required hours and then drive him to his MRI appt and wait for him to be discharged. I know...a day off, but think peace of mind and less stress . I've walked this and other equally maddening and difficult walks with many a cat. Hoping for the best...it often happens when we are absolutely positively sure the most horrible is upon us!!
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Tina
10/17/2019 04:11:23 pm
Hi Holly,
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Anne Morris
10/17/2019 06:01:43 pm
Please take into consideration a go fund me for this very special Angel. If finances build up.,, I would help set a page up for him. I don’t usually “follow” animals but he is a different spirit. He brings smiles! If you need help email me. Anne Morris
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Glenna
10/17/2019 08:50:50 pm
Tina I used an animal intuitive when my cat was sick. We talked by phone and she was able to help me and my Lily. Payment was cc. It may give you some peace of mind. You and Oreo are in my prayers. Be good to yourself. Cats pick up on our energies, and your sweet boy is sencing your stress. Hugs and purrrrrrrs. 🐈🐈🐈💞💞
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Tina Modugno
10/18/2019 06:33:56 am
Hi Glenna! I actually have an appointment with one in a couple of weeks! I spoke to her yesterday and she sounds really nice! I am looking forward to seeing how she can help.
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